Episode 04: Unseen in a Crowd

Hey y'all,

Welcome to Fifty and Unfiltered. I'm Mary, and I'm so glad you're here. This space is all about real talks, honest truths, and getting to the heart of what truly matters in our lives, especially for us mature women of color.

Today, I want to talk about something that's been heavy on my heart, and honestly, on the minds of so many women I know: that quiet ache of loneliness. Not just when you're physically by yourself, but that profound feeling of being unseen, unheard, or fundamentally disconnected, even when you're surrounded by family, friends, or a bustling community. It's about being unseen in a crowd.

It's a reality that often goes unacknowledged, particularly when we're expected to be the strong ones, the pillars, the ones who hold it all together. But what happens when that strength becomes a mask, hiding a deep sense of isolation?

In our latest podcast episode, "Unspoken Loneliness," I’m pulling back the curtain on this very real experience. I'll explore why this happens, how it shows up in our lives, and most importantly, how we can start finding our way back to authentic connection. I'll even share some of my own journey, including how I finally learned to let my sisters in and found a profound sense of relief.

You are not alone in feeling this way. This conversation is for you. Settle in, read on, and then tune into the episode. Let's get real about finding our way back to being truly seen and truly known.